So often we are tempted to think that we need to change another person. But the truth is that WE CAN'T CHANGE OR FIX THEM!! In reality only God can do that!
THE ONLY ONE THAT WE CAN CHANGE--IS OURSELVES.
Your brain only listens to you!
And by YOU YOURSELF changing, everyone else will be required to change as they interact with us--and discover that for example "they can't push our buttons anymore because we have no buttons to push."
You can't "push someones buttons" if they don't have any!
But the only person you can really change IS YOU!!!!!!